I want my home back

Me and my husband bought our first house a lil over a year ago. It was a dream come true for us. We got to pick our lot, chose the plan that best fits our growing family, and decided on [basic] colors for the house.

Then once we moved in, we tried to fill it as much dreams as we could [financially] - we bought our first LED TV (60 in...hell yeah!!), sectional sofa that came with a gigantic circle swivel chair, perfect dining set (we used to have a hand-me-down awkward size table and mismatch chairs). Everything were coming in together as planned.

Everyday becomes more exciting to be home - relax on our couch, and watch shows on the huge TV. UNTIL we decided to help the sis-in-law with her lazy stay-at-home husband (she has a job and he does not). It had become dreadful coming home knowing somebody else is laying on the couch and enjoying THEIR shows while i wait.. 

I miss my home - being able to relax and enjoy MY HOUSE with my husband and son. Work is stressful enough and last thing you wanna do when you get home is to be stressed even more. Unfortunately, i have no choice until these leeches move out...hopefully soon! 

So you wanna play a game!

I am talking about a game at work.

As a worker, i consider myself hardworking but knows when to take a break. I'll sit at my desk for a straight hour, get up for 1-2 minutes and back. 

Towards my colleagues - i like making friends. It's only at work where i get to socialize on a regular basis. But i hate a brown-noser and i can spot one right off the bat (just look at how brown their noses are..haha).

I've been with the company that im currently working with for almost 5 years. Started at a position where customers have the right to yell at you and degrade you, just because they think it's all your fault, then worked myself up to a back office position. A position who plays a huge importance to the company's success yet with minimal interaction with customers. And been doing this for 3 years now.

My position was brought by my hardwork, humility, and friendliness, i could say. And this department is one of best team i've been with until last year, when they added temporary employees who ended up being permanent. And they like to play games which ended up a game that i happen to know how to play!

That sure was a quick Karma

When people do bad things to you, just let it go and trust that karma will come to them. In my case, karma didn't wait that long, they got it just couple of days after they did me wrong. No i didn't laugh but deep inside, i'm saying, 'better stop messing with me, bitch'.

Have a great sunday y'all!

Where were you when it rained Common Sense?!

Most times, i think some people just don't have common sense at all or if they do, haven't learned how to use it.

Like for example, when you put dishes away, shouldn't you now that the biggest bowl has to go at the bottom, stacked with the next size and so on til the smallest size is on top?! If you're done watching TV and nobody else is there, wouldn't you turn the TV off?!

Those are just examples that i can think of right at the back of my head but, trust me, there's a lot!

I, for sure, not a very smart one, but it just annoys me when people do not understand simple things or refused to understand. Whatever, they're annoying!

According to dictionary, 'common sense' is a NORMAL native intelligence. So if one doesn't have one, they're not considered normal. Maybe not, but close!

Thinking out loud ..in a blog

I always catch myself reacting to things in my mind. Then, i wish i can say it out loud. That's why this blog is created!

When i decided to leave the place where i grew up, i knew i have to give up a lot things but didn't realize how hard it would be...until just recently.

I miss everything i used to have..people and things that i think i took for granted then. My parents who were always ready to forgive, no matter how big of a mess i was; friends who shares my stress and always turn them into fun times; my bestfriend who never got tired of listening to my whines and what nots; and the place itself that made me who i am today.

Now, i have a my husband, who, God knows, trying his damn hardest to be all of those in one. I do have friends but i can't tell if they're true or not - yes they share laughters and listen to my complaints, but none who would run to you when badly needed.

So i made this blog. My posts will be just all about my emotions - my mind thinking out loud. If you found this, good luck! I suggest not to read through unless other people's emotions interests you.

So, here goes my whining...